Friday, April 23, 2010
TRUE FRIENDS -
TRUE - by defintion.com real- genuine; authentic: sincere; not deceitful
FRIEND - by definition.com - a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
So I've always considered myself a TRUE FRIEND... I've always been the one that was ALWAYS there even when that same friend may not have always been there for me. I've had friends love me, use me, treat me like crap, treat me great, but I was ALWAYS there for them.
I understand we all have been hurt a time or two probably by friends but sometimes I wonder what do I have to do to let someone know they can trust me and I can be the best friend you've ever had. I see someone in need of a REAL TRUE friend I try to be there.
Here in the last few weeks I've had some "friends" say some things and do some things that were very hateful or hurtful and in all HONESTY I should probably not be their friends anymore... but since my HEART is SO BIG... as usual I forgive, (because that's what I am suppose to do) and I move on and keep on being the BEST friend.
Why is this? I don't know sometimes... cuz when I do get hurt I am the one truly upset, and trying to figure out what I did wrong (when 99% of the time I did nothing wrong) they just took something out on me, or assumed things or who knows.
So maybe I looked up the definitions of TRUE and FRIEND
but here is mine...
A TRUE FRIEND, IS SOMEONE THAT IS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT, WHEN, OR WHY... THEY ARE THE ONE YOU WOULD/CAN CALL AT ANY HOUR OF THE DAY OR NIGHT. THE FRIEND THAT YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR IF THEY WERE IN TROUBLE OR NEEDED SOMETHING. THE ONE YOU CRY TO, LAUGH WITH, ETC.. THEY ARE THE ONES THAT IF YOU NEEDED ANYTHING WOULD DO THE SAME FOR YOU. THE ONES YOUR SUPPOSE TO HAVE MEMORIES WITH FOR A LIFETIME...
Now I've learned friends come and go... but really if you have a TRUE friend, it doesn't matter how many days or months, even years sometimes go by.. they are still there for you!
So what do you think what is a true friend? What are your thoughts on it?